Are Singaporeans harsh and unfriendly at work? That's the sentiment expressed by one Malaysian working in Singapore in a recent online discussion.
Are Singaporeans harsh and unfriendly at work? That’s the sentiment expressed by one Malaysian working in Singapore in a recent online discussion.
The anonymous individual shared their experience in a post on the Facebook page Ricebowl on Monday (Nov 14). Before moving to Singapore, they had worked in Malaysia for three years but struggled to save money due to low wages and inflation.
“If I stayed, I’d still be part of the ‘moonlight generation’ in my 30s,” the individual lamented, referencing the popular term for workers who barely earn enough to make ends meet.
With this in mind, the person decided to focus on earning more and sought work in Singapore, driven by the favorable exchange rate. “I was lucky to land a white-collar job with decent pay, so I immediately moved without hesitation,” they wrote.
However, regret soon followed.
While they acknowledged that high rent in Singapore makes living costs steep, they noted that it’s still possible to save significantly “if you’re not a spendthrift.” They also highlighted other positives like affordable food and efficient public transport.
Singaporeans ‘Harsh’ and ‘Utilitarian’ Despite these advantages, the real challenge for the individual has been adapting to the work culture in Singapore, which they described as toxic.
“People here are very utilitarian and harsh with their words,” they claimed. “The work environment really affected me, even though I’m not afraid of hard work.”
Missing the warmth of home, they said, “Malaysians are friendlier and more patient.” They further mentioned feeling isolated as their colleagues engaged in gossip, making the workplace unbearable.
Reflecting on their decision to move, the individual said, “If I could go back in time, I wouldn’t have chosen to come to Singapore.” However, they are unable to leave immediately due to a contract and are trying to endure the situation for now.
“I can only pray that after quitting in six months, I find a better company. If not, I’ll return to Malaysia,” they added, lamenting, “Why do we have to leave our country to earn a living?”
‘Stress Proportional to Pay’ Several netizens responded to the post, sympathizing with the individual’s struggles and offering encouragement. One commenter noted their own experience with workplace difficulties in Singapore but added that they persevered for the financial rewards.
Others, however, pointed out that “stress is proportional to the pay.” One user shared that they actually feel “more stressed” working in Malaysia, adding, “In Singapore, I can buy what I want and send money home without worry. The only sacrifice is time with family.”
Another suggested a change in mindset, noting that toxic work environments exist in Malaysia too. “At least you’re earning four times more—it’s worth it,” they quipped.
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